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How American Divorcee ‘Love-scammed’ Me – Ezenwa
From Marcel Duru, Owerri
In a shocking tale of dating app deception, Obinna Ezenwa has come forward to share his harrowing experience of being scammed by an American woman he met online. This is coming after the said woman had allegedly made efforts to intimidate and scandalize Obinna’s name and reputation.
He met Kymberly Stalvey Ann Shepard on a dating app in October 2018. After conversing for a while, Kymberly surprised him by brandishing a flight ticket to Nigeria in November. She arrived in Lagos on December 28, 2018, and the couple decided to purchase a car together to travel around cities and villages. Ezenwa took Kymberly to his village in Imo State, where she met his family and friends.The relationship progressed, and in January 2019, Ezenwa and Kymberly had a court marriage in Owerri Municipal Council, surrounded by loved ones. However, unknown to him, Kymberly had been previously married to three other men, including a Nigerian, while he is her fourth husband.After returning to the US in January 2019, Kymberly informed Ezenwa that she would not be able to file the necessary paperwork for him to join her, as she had already sponsored two people and the US immigration would not allow her to do so again. This revelation prevented Obinna from legally immigrating to the US as previously agreed with Kymberly.Kymberly’s alleged deception did not end there. In the middle of 2019, she told Ezenwa that he would have to find alternative means to come to the US, as she would not be able to sponsor him. When pressed for an explanation, Kymberly shocked Ezenwa with the confession that her previous marriages, including one to a Nigerian man living in Georgia, were still legally valid when she married Ezenwa.Despite the betrayal and manipulation, Ezenwa forgave Kymberly due to his genuine love for her, but his attempts to obtain a US visa on his own were unsuccessful, leading to further conflict in the relationship, as Kymberly accused him of trying to dump her.With the unsuccessful attempts to obtain a US visa, Kymberly became increasingly temperamental and began stalking Ezenwa on social media, questioning his friends about him and even creating fake accounts to tarnish his reputation.In February 2020, Kymberly allegedly returned to Nigeria for a second visit and during her stay, Ezenwa discovered that she was communicating with another man, claiming he was her ex-husband. Upon her return to the US, Kymberly’s behavior worsened, and she eventually blocked Ezenwa on all means of communication.In February 2021, Kymberly used the anti-kidnapping squad in Owerri, Imo State, to have Ezenwa arrested through a man she met online. He spent three nights in police custody before his release, as the police were unable to substantiate any charges while his accusers abandoned the case in the Police and fled.According to Ezenwa, Kymberly’s allegations of extortion against him were all trumped up claims, to get back at him. He explained further: “I’m the victim in this matter. A woman I took to my village and to my parents, but didn’t know she was playing me for a fool. All she wanted was to sexually exploit me, which is clearly what she had been doing in the three previous marriages she had.“She is 62 and was already an expert in coercing men into marriage and ‘importing’ them from foreign nations to the United States where she seeks to call the shots and enslave the men for her sexual satisfaction.“Kymberly hid her previous marriages from me, but unfortunately for her, she could not file papers for me to join her as agreed and my own efforts yielded no result too. That was when I learnt that she had filed papers previously for other husbands and couldn’t file for me because she had reached the lawful limit.“Thinking she would lose me, that was when the monster in her emerged and she began to say and do all manner of things to malign and intimidate me. Joining her in America is something that could have worked out with time, but she was so desperate that she was willing to destroy the marriage, my name and everything because things did not go her way.”Obinna later moved to the UK to pursue his MSc, but in January 2022, Kymberly allegedly made a defamatory publication against him in a Nigerian national daily, prompting Obinna and his lawyers to file a defamation lawsuit against her and the newspaper, which is still ongoing.The estranged couple is also embroiled in a divorce case, with the court processes served on Kymberly since February 2022.In an alleged desperate effort to taint Obinna, Kymberly and her allies petitioned the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC), making wild allegations and claims, riddled with injurious falsehood, against Obinna.“Without any form of due diligence; without prior invitation or efforts to hear from me, the EFCC on April 2024, declared me wanted on the basis of the false claims and allegations leveled against me by Kymberly and her proxies in Nigeria, an action I consider defamatory and malicious, for which I have since filed a suit, seeking redress against the EFCC in court. The petitioner has my number and my email and must have made it available to the commission. These same people were calling my lawyer and still could not drop an invite for me through my lawyer or call me directly before declaring me wanted.”Reacting however, the EFCC spokesperson, Dele Oyewale insisted that the Commission must have made efforts to reach Ezenwa before declaring him wanted.His words: “It is not possible that the EFCC will declare anybody wanted without first making efforts to reach the person. We are a professional and global organization, so there is no way we would not have explored all available options to reach him before declaring him wanted. Well, if he feels maligned or defamed and has gone to court to seek redress, we shall meet him in court.”On financial dealings with Kimberly, Ezenwa however explained this: “In every financial engagement, she evaluated and made payments herself, except for when I do exchanges to Naira, the money is paid into my account and I do not decide how it is spent. For all the investments and the purchases of goods and services made, she evaluated and satisfied herself before paying.“The bulk of the expenses she ran were not on me but on hotel accommodations which she sourced herself and paid online. We stayed at the Eko Garden, Protea Hotel, Four Points by Sheraton and De Santiago Hotel among others. So her claims against me are largely false and fraudulent.“In all, I made no financial gain from her as that was not the objective; rather she took advantage of me, victimized me, sexually exploited me and only got infuriated because my trip to the US failed. Now I know it was actually God that saved me from her by making my Visa applications fail.”When the Imo Police Public Relations Officer, ASP Henry Okoye was reached to comment on the said arrest of Ezenwa by the command, he said: “I will have to find out from the Commander Tiger Base”. This is largely because Okoye assumed duty as the Imo Police spokesman in January 2023 while the said arrest happened February 2021.Contacted also, the Investigating Police Officer, who directly handled the case between Kymberly and Ezenwa at the Tiger Base, Imo State Police Command, simply identified as IPO Chidiebere Nwobi, told our correspondent on phone that the case was apparently a case of love gone sour. He confirmed that his unit arrested and detained Ezenwa following a complaint from Kymberly through the Police Control Room, but regretted that in spite of multiple opportunities given to Kymberly or her lawyer to come and prove their case, they failed to show up.“Even after Ezenwa was released, he was still reporting and coming to the command in the hope that the woman’s lawyer and those that facilitated the case would come to prove the allegations against him, he was interested in clearing his name, but they abandoned the case. At some point, we were convinced that the young man may be innocent of the allegations against him; and that it may just be a case of a relationship that went wrong. We had no lawful reason to detain anybody or continue with the case, so the matter was closed.”Obinna’s harrowing experience serves as a cautionary tale for those seeking love online. The case highlights the need for increased awareness and protection against romance scams and marital fraud, which can have devastating emotional and financial consequences for victims.
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Ooni Installs Oluremi Tinubu as Yeye Asiwaju Ile Oodua
From Ayinde Akintade, Osogbo
The Permanent Chairman, Southern Nigeria Traditional Rulers Council (SNTRC), Arole Oodua Olofin Adimula and Ooni of Ife, His Imperial Majesty Ooni Adeyeye Enitan Ogunwusi, Ojaja II, has installed the First Lady of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, Senator Oluremi Tinubu, as the Yeye Asiwaju gbogbo Ile Oodua.
The installation ceremony took place yesterday at Afewonro Park, Enuwa Square, Ooni’s Palace, Ile-Ife, during the grand finale of activities marking the 10th Coronation Anniversary of Ooni Ogunwusi.
Rites were performed for Senator Oluremi Tinubu by traditional chiefs in accordance with ancient customs.
Speaking during the ceremony, the Ooni expressed deep appreciation to Senator Oluremi Tinubu for her unwavering support over the years.
“She is the mother of the nation. Exactly 10 years ago, on the 7th of December 2015, she stood by me through thick and thin. I asked Baba Obasanjo to help me thank her because he accompanied me to several ancestral sites during those critical moments. Baba spent 16 straight hours with me when I was announced as Ooni of Ife. Today is not a day for long speeches, but I must sincerely thank President Bola Tinubu for his support and thank all of you for standing by our mother. She is indeed a merciful mother,” Ooni Ogunwusi said.
In her speech, Senator Oluremi Tinubu expressed profound gratitude to God and described the honour as both humbling and divine.
She commended the Ooni for his visionary leadership, describing him as a young, wise, and progressive monarch whose reign has brought global visibility and renewed pride to the Yoruba race.
She expressed appreciation to the entire Ife Kingdom for their support for the Ooni throughout the last decade.
“The joy of the nation has come, and we are just beginning to celebrate. God has assured us that 2026 will be a year of joy, honour, and restoration, a year in which everyone will partake in renewed glory,” she added.
Former President Olusegun Obasanjo lauded the Ooni for deeming the First Lady worthy of the prestigious title.
He urged Senator Tinubu to continue her humanitarian works, stressing that chieftaincy titles are traditionally bestowed on individuals of proven character.
“You have come to where you should belong. Continue your good works wherever you go. I am grateful to God that I witnessed the beginning of Ooni Ogunwusi’s reign and that I am here again to celebrate his 10th anniversary,” Obasanjo said.
In his goodwill message, Osun State Governor, Senator Ademola Adeleke, praised Senator Oluremi Tinubu as a pillar of national development whose contributions have facilitated numerous impactful initiatives across the country.
Adeleke also extolled the Ooni’s remarkable decade of transformative leadership, highlighting his role in advancing Yoruba culture, fostering unity, and contributing significantly to community and national development.
“In 10 years, Kabiyesi has redefined leadership, using his exalted stool to promote peace, unity, and progress. His purposeful engagement and forward-looking initiatives have elevated Ile-Ife’s global visibility and strengthened the unity of the Yoruba race,” he said.
The governor further applauded the Ooni’s entrepreneurial investments, which have enabled job creation, youth empowerment, and sustainable community development.
“Oba Adeyeye’s reign has greatly enhanced the cultural, social, and economic landscape of Ile-Ife. We pray that God grants him continued grace and good health to sustain his impactful leadership for many more decades,” he added.
The ceremony was attended by dignitaries such as Sultan of Sokoto, Alhaji Sa’ad Abubakar, Olu of Warri, Ogiame Atuwatse III; former First Lady, Patience Jonathan, Soun of Ogbomosho, Ọba Ghandi Afọlábí all of whom graced the celebrations with their presence to pay tribute to the Ooni’s decade of impactful reign.
Among the top government officials in attendance were Osun State Governor, Senator Ademola Adeleke, Lagos State Governor, Babajide Sanwo-Olu; Ogun State Governor, Prince Dapo Abiodun; former Ogun State Governor, Senator Ibikunle Amosun; Speaker of the Lagos State House of Assembly, Rt. Hon. Mudashiru Obasa; former Speaker of the House of Representatives, Rt. Hon. Dimeji Bankole; and the Deputy Governor of Osun State, Prince Kola Adewusi.
Also present were leading women of influence, including Kafayat Oyetola, wife of the Minister of Marine and Blue Economy; Lilian Oghogho Musa, wife of the Minister of Defence; Hajiya Fatima Tajudeen Abbas, wife of the Speaker of the House of Representatives; Dr. Ezinne Chinyere Kalu, wife of the Deputy Speaker; Salamatu Gbajabiamila, wife of the Chief of Staff to the President; Mrs. Titilayo Adeleke, wife of the Osun State Governor; the Yeyelaje of Oodua, Toyin Kolade; and former Oyo First Lady, Florence Ajimobi.
A distinguished assembly of traditional rulers also thronged the venue, further highlighting the significance of the occasion. Present were the Orangun of Oke-Ila, Oba Adedokun Abolarin; Salu of Edunabon, Oba Kehinde Oladepo; Orangun of Ila, Oba Wahab Oyedotun; Elegushi of Ikate-Elegushi Kingdom, Oba Saheed Ademola Elegushi; Oloro of Oro Kingdom, Oba Joel Olaniyi Oyatoye; alongside many other royal fathers from across Yorubaland and Nigeria.
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NYSC Presidential Honor Award Winner Returns to Benue, Shows Appreciations
From Attah Ede, Makurdi
An ex- corps member and a recipient of Presidential Honour Award, Udokpo Abasi, at the weekend returned to the NYSC orientation camp Wannune and his place of primary assignment in Benue State to show appreciation for the support he garnered to win presidential award.
Abasi, former member of the Orientation Broadcasting Service(OBS) and the Editorial and Publicity CDS Group, visited the NYSC Orientation Camp in Wannune, Benue State, to express his gratitude for the platform the scheme provided him.
He was warmly received by the State Coordinator, Veronica Garba, the Camp Director, Yahuza Isa Adamu, and the Head of the Publicity and Protocol Committee, Victoria Ogwuche.
During the visit, he shared the principles that shaped his success and contributed to his recognition as a State and Presidential Honour Award recipient.
Abasi highlighted punctuality, regularity, determination, devotion to duty, loyalty, effectiveness, resilience, initiative, discipline, teamwork, and strong interpersonal relationships as key values that guided him during and after his service year. He encouraged Corps Members to embrace these virtues diligently.
He also commended the current batch for the teamwork and discipline he observed in camp, noting that such qualities remain central to personal progress and the continued legacy of excellence in the NYSC scheme.
He further motivated Corps Members to embark on purposeful projects, embrace responsibility, and maximise the opportunities available during the service year.
As part of his visit to Benue, Abasi also returned to his former place of primary assignment and his host community, where he once served as a Corps Member, to reconnect and express appreciation for the support he received.
Corps Members described his visit as inspiring and reaffirming, as it offered real life examples of the opportunities available through dedication and hard work.
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NGO Launches Climate Project Steering Committee in Benue
From Attah Ede, Makurdi
A global Non-Governmental Organisation (NGO), International Alert has inaugurated Climate Project Steering Committee in Benue State, to tackle climate-induced conflicts and promote peace through Community dialogue.
The programme which is being supported by Irish Government, is meant to address the challenges of climate stress and conflicts by providing oversight and strategic guidance for implementing the Powering Peace through Climate Action project.
While inaugurating the state steering committee in Makurdi, the Senior Project Officer, International Alert, Kengkeng Ati, enjoined the State Steering Committee members to diligently tackle the dual challenges of climate stress and conflicts across the state.
He further urged the committee to provide oversight, strategic guidance, and recommendations for implementing the Powering Peace through Climate Action project.
“We are not simply urging communities to cease hostilities; we are investing in climate-smart solutions that offer livelihood options and alleviate tensions,” Ati emphasized.
Highlighting the climate challenges faced by Benue State, the Project Officer mentioned issues such as reduced rainfall, drying water sources, declining soil fertility, and abnormal weather patterns as indicators.
He underlined the urgent need to address these issues to prevent further disputes over land and resources.
Meanwhile, as part of measures to mitigate tensions, climate hubs have been set up in Fiidi and Agatu, offering services like weather monitoring, biogas production, briquette- making, fish drying, and solar-powered water supply.
This is in addition to fish ponds in Fiidi Community in Makurdi and Agatu which are being revitalized to enhance food security and income.
The project which is being implemented in collaboration with the Benue State Council on Climate Change, aims to empower local Communities and ensure the sustainability of climate hubs beyond the project’s one-year duration.
The inaugurated multi-stakeholder Steering Committee includes representatives from government ministries and parastatals, departments, agencies, and the private sector.
The Senior Project Officer highlighted the project’s objectives, which include raising awareness about climate change, developing local peace and adaptation plans, influencing government policies and funding, and providing sustainable livelihoods to reduce conflict triggers.
He encouraged Benue Communities to embrace new technologies and transition from conflict-prone systems to a more prosperous future.
In a presentation titled “Powering Peace Through Climate Action Project Phase II,” Mr. Ati shared insights from the project’s initial phase, which he confirmed had successfully united Communities and resolved resource-related conflicts through a climate-conflict analysis.
According to him, the project’s second phase would focus more on sustaining conflict sensitivity and climate adaptation efforts to engage diverse stakeholders.
Ati stressed the importance of collaboration among international stakeholders, government bodies, INGOs, and Community groups to harness climate adaptation for stakeholder empowerment.
Chairman of the Steering Committee, who is also the Director General of the SDGs Office in the State, Sir John Akuse pledged assured that the Project Steering Committee would provide unwavering dedication and top-tier support to the project team.
Other members of the Committee including Dr. Dan Mailumo, the Director General of Benue State Council on Climate Change, and Mrs. Josephine Habba, the Director General of Benue State Commission for Peace and Conflict, alongside other representatives from pertinent organizations, expressed their full support for the project and affirmed their commitment towards achieving the goals set by the Project Steering Committee.
It would be recalled that the International Alert, was established in 1986, with a mission to foster dialogue, research, advocacy, and outreach activities promoting peace and sustainable development.

